When we actively practice domestic discipline, it can sometimes feel like we aren't able to live in public as our true selves. Join us and our very bruised butts as we discuss what it can feel like to live a "double life." 

Our tops join us in this episode to answer your burning questions! Join us for the laughter and fun (but not the audio quality... I'm so sorry :| I cannot stress enough how we have no idea what we are doing)

Let's talk about all the different types of spankings and which ones are our favorites! We love them all, but some certainly rank higher! Which ones are yours?

How does That Thing We Do change or reinforce how we see ourselves, specifically with gender? Inspired by recent gender talk on the pod & also chat on another server, we're curious: does spanking (in either role - spanker or spa...

We like to think of "the squirm" as the spanko form of flirting! Is there anything better than seeing a bottom squirm before a punishment? Not many things come to mind... 🤭

This week, Adalia asked our listeners what their “a-ha moment” was - the moment they realized they were not alone with their unusual desires. Here’s what they said! Episode References: -

May we have your attention please! Please welcome the lovely switch couple, LeatherKitten and Alex! 📯📯📯📯Join us as we talk to LeatherKitten and Alex, a switch couple with a lot love and spanking to go around for the both of them. 

Join us as we go through the BDSM test! Where do we stand on sex, polyamory, romance, and pain? Take the test with us here: https://bdsmtest.org/! We would love to hear your responses! 

Being vulnerable with a partner is both amazing and really really hard. We go through some things that have been better in our lives because of being vulnerable, even when it was hard. 

Everything we do comes down to communication and that includes punishments! How do you negotiate the type of punishment? Or the severity of the punishment? Do you even want to be punished every single time?Join us as we talk about what w...

It can feel freeing to finally accept ourselves for who we are, but there are some downsides to it too... Also note that we are taking a two week break from posting episodes! We literally didn't even have time to record a minisode. ...

Sometimes our kinks don't match our partner's kinks and that's okay! But it can take a bit of communication and navigation. We have some ways to help you both feel fulfilled and satisfied no matter what types of kinks you both enjoy! 

Bella joins us on this episode to talk about her journey through finding her fetish almost accidentally and how it has changed her life. 

If you could go back in time & talk to your earlier self about your kink, what would you say?Our Patrons answered this question and some of the answers might make you cry and laugh. What would you say to yourself? 

We talk a lot about how we often like to keep sex and spankings separate especially for discipline! BUT! That doesn't mean we always have to keep them completely separate and sometimes it can help us ease into the idea of spanking! Join us as w...

BerkeleyGirl joins us to talk about her experience entering the spanko world as an older adult! Listen in as she discusses finding out about spanking and how it can be romantic as well as finding community. 

Our inner age might have some memory loss because we realized we had covered this topic 95 episodes ago, but in our defense, it was 95 episodes ago and we've learned new things since then (like a new term)!So join us as we rehash an old ...

What else is there to say but THANK YOU for listening and engaging! We wouldn't have it made it to 100 episodes without you and we appreciate every single one of you. Come along with us as we celebrate and reminisce about the joy w...

If you're like us, we know this week is hard for you, but in anytime, you need to do what's best for you. We've got some ideas how to keep yourself safe at parties, online, and meeting one-on-one. No matter where...

THIS EPISODE CONTAINS SPOILERS FOR BABYGIRLIt can be both exciting and scary when "our thing" comes into the cultural zeitgeist through a mainstream movie. So let's talk about it! Rex and Adalia sit down ...

Join us as we talk to Scott from the podcast Dudes Spankin' Dudes on his experience in the kink scene, coming to terms with his sexuality, and finding his fetish! Episode Resources:

Ever wondered what it was like being in a 24/7 dynamic? Or maybe you are in one and you're wondering if you're doing it the "right" way? Join us as we discuss the ins and outs of our dynamics and marvel at how different they are! 

It's that time of year where the weather gets colder and our schedules get a lot tighter... (along with my pants but we won't talk about that...)Because of all of that (especially the tight pants), we are taking a break in the month of ...

Does kinkery run in the family? Have you ever mentioned your fetish to your family? Well, Rex told her sister and we're joined by Hels to talk about her dealing with trauma around kink (cw: non-consent) and her journey through it all. 

We asked our patrons how they went about praying the spanko away and how it clearly didn't work. Here are their answers!